Lately I've been hearing that my closed door romances are not clean enough to be in this promo or that promo. Sigh.
I think if I write any more romances I'll place them in historical times, when chaste behavior and virginity until marriage were much more expected--and common--than they are today. I really can't write a romance set in 2020 with no sex happening until marriage and keep a straight face. I don't write that kind of fantasy.
Maybe an arranged marriage like "marriage at first sight?" Even so passion pre-sex is usually accepted, but not a description of the actual act.
Historical romance is research intense. No matter how hard I try, there is always someone who says - hey, that absolutely would not have happened! What has been written before becomes the standard in the eyes of the reader. Personally, on most days I don't care. I write stories, take 'em or leave 'em.